Mary Shores on The Power of Words

Mary Shores is the author of Conscious Communications: A Step-by-Step Guide to Harnessing the Power of Your Words to Change Your Mind, Your Choices, and Your Life. Recognized as a leader of innovative thought, she has spent over a decade teaching businesses and individuals how to identify their goals, create new ways of thinking, and take action to create meaningful results. Mary travels across the nation giving lectures and teaching courses, and has been featured on local and national radio and television shows, podcasts, and blogs.

Here are some of the big topics we talked about...

  • Words, thoughts, feelings, actions: aspects of manifesting

  • Do you see the world through rose colored glasses, smudged glasses, or clearly?

  • Mary cautions us against trauma bonding. It’s disempowering, reinforces the negative

  • Stories of excitement make you like a magnet to other people

  • Mary shares her expertise on creating rocking affirmations!

  • Doing affirmations consistently builds a pathway in the subconscious

  • One outloud declaration to make someone happier by the end of the call informed her bestselling book and all parts of her life - words are powerful!

In Mary’s Voice

Your words influence your internal drive and reveal your internal thoughts and emotions.”

True knowledge is when you see life as it really is. That’s your most powerful decision-making state of being.”

Trauma bonding is when we are telling traumatic stories to our past in order to create a resonance, bond, or connection with another person.”

“The way you talk about yourself, is a reflection of your identity.”

“Those [trauma] stories are best kept until you have a strong relationship with someone.”

“When you’re meeting someone or wanting to share parts of your life, all it takes is focusing on the triumphant.

“The most beautiful part of your story is definitely in how you have learned to move forward.”

I’m living a life that is more beautiful than it was before. I have the wisdom, awareness, and experience to consciously make choices I’m in control of. My moments in life are more delicious. Everything works more effortlessly. Not all the time. Life is a journey and many times it’s uncomfortable. Being authentic isn’t going around saying you have a perfect life!”

“The point of affirmations are to support your emotional state in the world. When you feel better, you’re going to do better!”

“Everyday in every way, I’m building the connections that are creating my future life right here and now.

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Mary’s In Her Voice Ep. 106, “The Science of Personal Development

The Science of Personal Development with Mary Shores

Mary Shore’s roller coaster life began with being abandoned at a young age and tragically losing her first child. But Mary was able to overcome life’s hurdles and turn tragedy to triumph by building an 8 figure business empire at age 24.

Mary is an expert in personal development but is not a life coach; she’s a businesswoman who discovered a road map of how to get in control of your life. She truly walks her talk by generating pragmatic solutions for people who are freaking out. Mary blends personal experience with her extensive knowledge of neuroscience and human behavior to guide businesses and individuals to defeat the freak-out and create their ideal life.

She’s a Shark Tank style CEO who cuts through the chaos so you can change your mind, your choices, and your life.

Here are a few of the big topics we talked about:

  • Kelly introduces Mary Shores.

  • Mary shares where her connection with personal development began.

  • How our we can self-sabotage ourselves.

  • Infinite Possibilities

  • How to connect our subconscious with the desirable outcome.

  • Positive thoughts plant positive seeds, and negative thoughts plant the negative seeds.

  • Unraveling your entire life is unnecessary in order to move forward.

  • Kelly and Mary discuss how having son’s on the spectrum have taught them so much as women and moms.

  • Belief systems and how you can overcome them.

  • Mary reads an excerpt from her book, Conscious Communications.

  • How to uncover your path of purpose.

  • Cleanse or Clogs

  • Mary does not believe in perfectionism, she believes in an 80/20 life.

  • Mary is an extremely powerful manifester.

  • Kelly and Mary discuss how the science part comes into personal development and manifesting.

  • Mary shares how she was able to overcome all of the trauma in her life.

  • If you choose a different “door” your life can head in a million different directions.

  • Mary shares what her Inner Voice is asking of her.

In Mary’s Voice:

“Science and spirituality are really one and the same but they are using two different languages to explain the happenings.”

“I always say that if you take a step to a new direction, then the universe, God, or whatever you believe will come in and meet you halfway.”

“You don’t have to unravel every moment of your life in order to move forward. But what you can do as the workaround, is to start the new neural pathway.”

“What I’ve discovered is that your purpose is whatever your natural skills and gifts, talents and abilities are. It’s really the rest of the world that’s tried to convince you they’re something different.”

“Everything you say, every thing you do, every word that comes out of your mouth, every choice you make, every action you take; in the thinnest sliced moment of life is either creating that deeper connection to what you want or it’s driving a disconnection.”

“True transformation happens in small pivots over time.”

“Every time that we make that choice that takes us closer to where we want to be, that’s reinforcing that neural pathway.”

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